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Don't Lose Hope - Conquer Anxiety

Find renewed strength & peace with “Don’t Lose Hope”, a mindful reminder to focus on what grounds you, calm anxiety, & nurture your inner peace.


Have you ever felt tired, anxious, or hopeless? Maybe you’ve been walking through a season that feels dark, uncertain, or never-ending. If so, please know—you’re not alone. Hope can feel distant when life gets hard, but even in our darkest moments, hope is never truly gone.

In this reflection from The Daring Well Podcast, I want to remind you of something powerful: you are stronger than you think, and there is still light ahead. Whether you’re facing anxiety, worry, or discouragement, there are small yet meaningful ways to reconnect with peace, faith, and emotional stability.

Let’s take a gentle, hopeful journey together through the themes of focus, anxiety, and encouragement—and rediscover what it means to not lose hope.


You Are Not Alone

One of the biggest lies hopelessness tells us is that we’re alone in our pain. But the truth is—we were never meant to do life alone.

Community, compassion, and connection are vital parts of our emotional healing. When we feel isolated or overwhelmed, even reaching out to one trusted person can make a difference. Whether it’s a friend, counselor, or faith leader, sharing your struggle opens the door for empathy and light to enter.

If you ever find yourself feeling hopeless, please reach out. In the U.S., you can call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, available 24/7. Internationally, there are similar services ready to listen and support you. You are never a burden—asking for help is an act of courage, not weakness.


What You Focus On Grows

The heart of hope lies in focus. What we give our attention to—positive or negative—has the power to shape our mindset, mood, and energy.

Our brains are wired for survival, not happiness. That means we often default to focusing on danger, loss, or what could go wrong. While that instinct keeps us safe, it can also trap us in loops of fear, worry, and hopelessness if we’re not mindful.

But the good news is, we can choose to rewire that focus. When you begin to intentionally notice gratitude, moments of beauty, or small blessings, your perspective starts to shift. You begin to nurture hope from the inside out.


Try This Gentle Reframe:

  • When your thoughts start to spiral, take a slow, deep breath.
  • Pause, and name one thing—a person, memory, or moment—that reminds you of safety or hope.
  • Repeat this grounding step anytime you feel overwhelmed.

Each time you do this, you’re retraining your mind and nervous system to focus on peace rather than panic. You’re reminding yourself that you can create space for calm, even in uncertainty.

Remember: Whatever you focus on grows. You can choose where to place your energy.


Reconnecting with Peace in Chaos

Peace doesn’t mean the absence of problems. It means finding steadiness in the middle of the storm.

When everything feels like it’s falling apart, peace can feel far away—but it’s closer than you think. It lives in your breath, in your heartbeat, in your small moments of awareness and stillness.

Each deep breath tells your nervous system: “I am safe. I am in control.” This message helps shift your body from the fight-or-flight mode of stress into the rest-and-recover state of healing.

If you practice mindfulness or prayer, this is the perfect moment to reconnect with your faith. For me, Jesus is my anchor for hope. My faith grounds me and reminds me that even in chaos, I can rest in divine peace.

If you’re feeling far from your faith right now, that’s okay. Sometimes life pulls us into seasons of distance. Just remember, you can always reconnect—it’s never too late.


Understanding Anxiety, Worry, and Hopelessness

Anxiety is a natural part of being human. It’s your body’s way of alerting you that something needs attention. But when left unchecked, anxiety can spiral into worry, overwhelm, and eventually, hopelessness.

Many people say, “I work best under pressure.” And while that might be true for short bursts of time, living in constant stress takes a toll. When your sympathetic nervous system is stuck in fight-or-flight mode, it becomes harder for your body to rest, recover, and feel grounded.

That’s why anxiety can sometimes make you feel trapped or out of control. But here’s something empowering to remember—your emotions are not your enemy, and they are not the full truth. They are simply messengers, letting you know that your body and spirit are craving safety, rest, and connection.

You don’t have to push anxiety away or fight it. Instead, you can acknowledge it and gently guide yourself back to calm.

🫶🏾 A Simple Grounding Technique:

  • Place your hand over your heart.
  • Inhale slowly and deeply.
  • Exhale, whispering to yourself:

    “I am here. I am safe. My breath is my anchor.”

Sometimes, hope doesn’t come as a bold declaration or a clear plan. Sometimes it’s just a quiet whisper that says, “I can try again tomorrow.”


The Courage to Keep Going

It takes courage to show up every day—to keep living, healing, and growing even when life feels uncertain.

Courage doesn’t always look like strength. Sometimes it looks like tears, rest, or taking one small step forward. It’s found in the gentle decision to not give up.

When you choose to keep going, you’re saying yes to your healing and your future. You’re choosing to believe that the pain of today does not define your tomorrow.

And that choice—that flicker of hope—is powerful beyond measure.

💛 Hope as a Healing Practice

Hope doesn’t erase pain. It doesn’t magically fix every situation. But it does shift your energy and perception, allowing space for new possibilities.

When you hold on to hope, you remind yourself that there’s more to your story than this moment. It gives you the strength to take another breath, another step, another chance to begin again.

Hope is a form of resilience—it anchors you to your purpose and your inner light. It connects your present struggle to the possibility of future healing.


Reflect on These Truths:

  • You are not defined by this season of pain.
  • You have overcome before—you can do it again.
  • The rain will end, and the sun will shine again.

Holding onto hope doesn’t deny your reality. It simply allows faith and peace to coexist with the challenges you face.


Affirmations for Hope and Strength

Affirmations are powerful because they help you retrain your mind to believe what your heart needs to hear. By speaking life over yourself, you shift your inner dialogue from fear to faith.

Here are a few affirmations from this episode to help you stay grounded in hope:

  • 🌿 I choose to focus on what I can control and let go of what I cannot.
  • 🌿 I trust that better days are coming.
  • 🌿 Even when I don’t have all the answers, I can find moments of peace.
  • 🌿 My heart is steady. My spirit is strong.

Repeat these daily or whenever you feel overwhelmed. Let them become part of your healing practice.


Faith, Connection, and Growth

Faith is deeply personal—it can look different for everyone. But whether you find it in prayer, meditation, nature, or quiet reflection, reconnecting with something greater than yourself brings strength and clarity.

If you’re walking through a time where your faith feels shaky, remember: you don’t have to have all the answers. Just being open to the possibility of light is enough.

In moments of stillness, ask yourself:

  • Where do I feel peace in my body right now?
  • What am I grateful for, even if it’s small?
  • What can I release today that’s no longer serving me?

These small check-ins nurture your soul and remind you that hope grows with gentle, consistent care.


The Beauty of Resilience

Resilience isn’t about never falling—it’s about getting up, again and again, even when it hurts.

Every challenge you’ve faced has taught you something about your strength, your faith, and your capacity to grow. You’ve survived difficult things before. You can trust yourself to navigate what comes next.

Resilience doesn’t mean ignoring your emotions. It means giving yourself permission to feel them fully, while knowing they won’t last forever.

So keep showing up, even on the hard days. Each small step forward is an act of faith and courage.


A Final Word of Encouragement

If you’re walking through a dark season, I want you to remember this:

You are not alone.
You are not defined by this moment.
The rain will end. The sun will shine again.

Hope doesn’t remove pain—but it does give you the strength to keep going. It connects you back to purpose, healing, and peace.

So take a deep breath, whisper to yourself, “I can try again tomorrow.” Then take that next small step forward. That’s what daring well looks like.

🌼 Let’s Stay Connected

If this message spoke to your heart, please share it with someone who might need encouragement today.

You can connect with me at www.DaringWell.com for mindset coaching, guided meditations, and holistic wellness resources. 

You can also follow me on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Darin...for wellness and self care inspiration and our weekly podcasts.

Keep living, loving, and Daring Well.

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Sherrita "Rita" Mercer, MA, LPCC-S, CTRTC, CCTP, CGCS, CIMHP
Holistic Wellness & Mindset Coach, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor

Hi, I'm Rita! I am so excited to support you on your wellness journey!   As a Holistic Wellness & Mindset Coach, I offer a holistic approach to support growth through mindset coaching, stress management, mindfulness, coping skills, & mind and body practices. My expertise incorporates nearly a decade in the field of Mental Health & Holistic Wellness and over two decades in Business & Organizational Leadership and Human Resources. The Daring Well coaching model integrates the combined overflow of nearly a decade of certifications/trainings, education, and evidenced-based research to promote wellness in mind, body, and spirit. If you're ready to grow, shift your mindset, find clarity with your life direction and goals, while building a life you love, I am ready to lead the way. Join me on a journey to discover your true self with self-love and unapologetic confidence.